The Wellness Diary

Insights, advice, new research, tips and tricks, and new resources to help you with your mental health journey.

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Transform Your Life with the Feel Great System

The Feel Great System, your best buddy in this journey to wellness. It's an all-encompassing, innovative plan to help you reach that much-coveted state of feeling great. The system warmly reminds us that self-care, mental health, physical activity, healthy routines, and supportive relationships aren't just nice-to-haves, they're essential ingredients in the recipe for a joyful, fulfilled life.

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Understanding Enmeshment Trauma: Navigating Through Intricate Bonds

Enmeshment trauma is a unique type of psychological trauma that occurs within relationships where personal boundaries are so blurred and poorly defined that individuals lose their sense of self. This can lead to a myriad of psychological challenges that may persist for a long time. Unlike healthy relationships that thrive on mutual respect, understanding, and a sense of individuality, enmeshed relationships are characterized by excessive emotional involvement and closeness with at least one significant other to the point where the individual's identity is consumed.

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How to Help Someone Overcome Porn Addiction

This addiction is characterized by an individual's inability to control or decrease their usage, despite the negative consequences it brings upon their life. These consequences can be varied and far-reaching, with the individual experiencing significant distress and impairment in multiple areas of their life. This includes their well-being, their relationships with family members, their social interactions, and even their performance in academics or the workplace. It's important to recognize that like any addiction, porn addiction can be a serious and debilitating condition that requires understanding, support, and appropriate treatment.

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Navigating the Path to Healing: Christian Sexual Trauma Therapy

Sexual trauma can be a deeply personal and isolating experience, particularly for individuals who identify as Christian. Young adults and adults grappling with the aftermath face unique challenges, such as reconciling their experiences with their faith. This process can be confusing and painful as survivors strive to understand their trauma within their religious framework. This post aims to provide supportive and informative guidance for those on this challenging healing journey.

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5-Uncomfortable Conversations to Have With Your Therapist

In therapy, if the client-therapist relationship is strong, it is much more likely that therapy will be successful and that the client will reach their goals. In fact, it may be the most influential factor in creating successful outcomes other than the overall skill and competence of the therapist themself.

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How To Identify and Cope With Toxic Family Issues

With the holiday season quickly approaching, some of us prepare to enjoy and bask in the love and companionship of our family; while others struggle with knowing that we must “face the family” again. The difference here is the reluctance to be in our family’s presence and being able to feel good and whole.

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4-Mindful Morning Rituals To Start Now

The way we start off our mornings can really affect how we take in the rest of our day. It can be really easy to get into a morning routine that feels like we’re on auto-pilot. Practicing mindfulness has been shown to decrease anxiety over time, so adding some sort of mindfulness practice to the mornings can have a positive effect on the rest of our day.

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7-Ways to Become a More Intentional and Engaged Father

Being a father comes with responsibilities that many men don’t feel prepared to handle—however, they’re also responsibilities that they can only ever truly learn by experiencing. This life-changing role subtly asks each man to become the provider, teacher, mentor, and hero that their child needs.

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Episode 30: Become A Visionary

Episode 30: Nichomi Higgins, LMFT joins me in discussing the spiritual, mental and emotional road blocks of taking risks and following your dreams. She shares how to get over fear and manifest your dreams.

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Episode 12: The Space Between

Episode 12: Ms. Cocharo discusses the beauty that exists in "the space between" and how she helps couples reconnect by looking at each other with admiration, curiosity and respect for each person's experience in the relationship. 

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The Golden Years: Making The Good Times Count

More than any other age group, seniors could perhaps benefit the most from regularly participating in a favorite hobby. As it turns out, research has shown a correlation between hobbies, life’s purpose, and a longer lifespan - particularly in individuals over the age of 65 years.

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Why It's Ok To Get Hurt: Life's Greatest Lessons

Our greatest growth often comes from the most difficult times in our life. Getting hurt is inevitable in life, especially when it comes to relationships. It's hard to always know how to cope and process everything when you are in the trenches of pain and darkness.

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Vulnerability: The Leap Into The Unknown

Vulnerability means showing up and allowing yourself to be seen, speaking your truth and putting yourself at risk for rejection. It's saying "I love you" and not knowing how the other person feels. It's hearing that you have cancer. It's walking into an interview for your dream job. It's becoming a parent for the first time. It's facing someone that you have hurt. It's admitting that you struggle with an addiction or that your relationship isn't working anymore.

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The Commitment Phobic: How To Spot One And Protect Your Heart

Commitment phobia stems from unresolved childhood trauma and is an unconscious re-enactment of their internal conflict. Part of the psyche yearns for closeness, companionship, and love, while the other part is terrified of the responsibilities that come with a relationship. Being in a relationship with a commitment phobic is extremely emotionally draining and creates a confusing "push and pull" for anyone involved with them. 

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It's The Little Things: Finding Time for Self-Care

In today's world is go-go-go, Monday-Friday goes by in the blink of an eye and suddenly it's the weekend.  

How exhausting is that?! At times, it can feel empty living this way, lost in the hustle of high expectations, to-do lists, and responsibilities. Stress levels can build up and cause emotional and physical responses such as anxiety, depression, and sleep problems.

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Finding Balance: The Emotional Side Of The Tech Industry

As a therapist, and also someone who has indirect exposure to this industry and "startup life" it has been fascinating, beautiful and terrifying all at the same time, to see the impact of tech unfold.

I have witnessed incredible innovation, forward thinking and action oriented positive change. While at the same time, seeing glimpses of another side, that might not be as wonderful and glamours on the inside. These high stakes positions often require endless hours of coding, stress and high-pressure situations that impact the well-being, family, friends and mental health of these forward thinkers. 

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