The Wellness Diary
Insights, advice, new research, tips and tricks, and new resources to help you with your mental health journey.
5 Ways to Make Yourself Feel More Comfortable Being Alone
Being alone and feeling lonely aren't the same thing. Learn five ways to become more comfortable with solitude, quiet your need for constant distraction, and build a stronger relationship with yourself.
Alexithymia: Why You Struggle to Identify Your Feelings
Do you struggle to put your feelings into words or understand what you are experiencing emotionally? Alexithymia describes difficulty identifying and describing emotions. Learn about the signs, potential causes, its impact on relationships, and how therapy can help you develop greater emotional awareness and connection.
When You Don't Recognize Yourself Anymore
Sometimes you look at your life and realize you don't feel like yourself anymore. Explore how stress, life transitions, relationships, and changing priorities can leave you feeling disconnected—and how you can begin finding your way back to yourself.
Why You Miss People You Don’t Actually Want Back
You can miss someone without wanting them back. Sometimes what you're grieving isn't the relationship itself, but the familiarity, connection, version of yourself, or future you imagined.
Why Some People Feel More Comfortable Giving Advice Than Talking About Their Own Feelings
Some people are incredibly good at helping everyone else—but struggle to talk about themselves. Here's why giving advice can sometimes feel safer than being emotionally vulnerable.
Why We Love Reality TV So Much
Reality TV may seem like mindless entertainment, but our fascination with it taps into some surprisingly deep psychological patterns—from social comparison and curiosity to emotional escape and parasocial relationships.
When You Feel Like You're Behind in Life Even Though You're Doing Fine
You can be doing well in life and still feel like you're falling behind. This article explores why comparison, expectations, and imagined timelines can make a good life feel like it's not enough—and how to reconnect with what actually matters to you.
Why You Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Relationship
Why does it feel like you keep ending up in the same kind of relationship? Understanding your relationship patterns can help you recognize what feels familiar, what you tolerate, and what you may want to choose differently.
Why Your Teen Tells You “Nothing” When You Ask How Their Day Was
You ask your teen how their day was, and the answer is always “fine” or “nothing.” Learn why direct questions don't always lead to connection—and how parents can create more opportunities for teens to open up.
When Your Partner’s Bad Mood Starts to Feel Like Your Responsibility
When your partner seems upset, do you immediately wonder what you did—or how to fix it? Learn why someone else's mood can feel like your responsibility and how to support your partner without taking on their emotions as your own.
Why Being “Low Maintenance” Can Become Its Own Kind of Problem
Do you pride yourself on being “low maintenance” but struggle to ask for help, express your preferences, or tell people when something hurts you? Being easygoing can be a strength—but not when it means disappearing from your own relationships.
When Your Child Thinks Every Mistake Is a Big Deal
For some children, a small mistake can feel enormous. Learn why perfectionism and anxiety can make mistakes feel threatening—and how parents can help children develop a healthier relationship with failure and uncertainty.
Why Depression Can Make the Future Feel Pointless
Depression can make the future feel empty, distant, or impossible to imagine. Understanding how depression affects hope, motivation, and anticipation can be an important step toward finding a way forward.
When the News Never Stops: How Constant Updates Affect Your Mental Health
Staying informed can be important, but constantly monitoring the news can leave your mind and body in a state of ongoing activation. Learn how to stay connected to the world without letting the news consume your day.
When Couples Fight About the Same Thing Over and Over
If you and your partner keep having the same argument, the problem may be bigger than the issue you're fighting about. Explore the emotional patterns underneath recurring relationship conflict and what can help couples break the cycle.
When Nothing Is Wrong, But Your Body Doesn't Believe It
Sometimes your mind knows you're safe, but your body hasn't caught up. Learn why your nervous system can stay on alert even when there is no immediate danger—and what can help you reconnect with a sense of safety.
The Anxiety of Being Perceived: Why Social Situations Feel So Exhausting
Sometimes social anxiety isn't about being afraid of people—it's about being afraid of being perceived. Constantly monitoring how you look, sound, and come across can make even enjoyable social situations exhausting.
When Your Child's Emotions Feel Like an Emergency: Parenting From a Hypervigilant Nervous System
For parents with a history of trauma, a child's anger, sadness, or distress can sometimes activate a powerful sense of urgency. Learn how hypervigilance can affect parenting, why your child's emotions aren't always an emergency, and how healing your own nervous system can change the way you respond.
When a Good Day Makes You Feel Worse: The Complicated Guilt of Depression
For someone living with depression, a good day isn't always simple relief. Sometimes, feeling better can bring guilt, fear that the feeling won't last, or pressure to prove that you're finally okay. Here's why a good day doesn't erase the difficult ones—and why you're allowed to enjoy it without apology.
Why Summer Can Feel More Exhausting Than Relaxing
Summer is supposed to feel carefree, but a packed calendar of social plans, travel, family obligations, and the pressure to make the most of the season can leave us feeling more exhausted than relaxed. Here's why summer burnout happens—and how to create more room to breathe.