The Wellness Diary
Insights, advice, new research, tips and tricks, and new resources to help you with your mental health journey.
Why It Feels Strange When a Relationship Is Actually Stable
Healthy relationships don’t always feel the way you expect. Learn why stability can feel unfamiliar — and even uncomfortable — and what it takes to adjust to a healthier dynamic.
Why You Feel Irritated by Things That Shouldn’t Bother You
Do small things seem to irritate you more than they should? Learn why this happens and what your reactions might be telling you about your emotional state.
Why You Feel Uncomfortable When Someone Is Actually Kind to You
Kindness should feel good — but for many people, it feels uncomfortable or unfamiliar. Learn why receiving kindness can feel difficult and what it may be telling you.
How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Like a Bad Person
Setting boundaries can feel uncomfortable, especially if you’re used to putting others first. Learn why guilt shows up — and how to set boundaries in a healthy, confident way.
Why You Feel Worse After Talking to Certain People (And What It Means)
Do you ever walk away from a conversation feeling drained, anxious, or “off”? Learn why certain interactions affect you more than others — and what your emotional response might be telling you.
What Emotional Safety Actually Feels Like (And Why It Matters in Relationships)
Emotional safety is the foundation of healthy relationships — but many people aren’t sure what it actually feels like. Learn how to recognize emotional safety, why it matters, and how therapy can help you build it.
Why It’s So Hard to Leave an Abusive Relationship (Understanding Trauma Bonds)
Leaving an abusive relationship is often far more complex than it seems from the outside. Learn why trauma bonds form, why people stay, and how support can help you begin to break the cycle.
The Mental Load in Relationships: Why One Partner Often Carries More
Do you feel like you’re the one keeping track of everything in your relationship? The mental load — the invisible planning, remembering, and emotional management of daily life — often falls on one partner. Learn why this happens and how couples can create a more balanced dynamic.
When You’re the Strong One in Your Family: The Hidden Cost of Always Holding It Together
Are you the “strong one” in your family — the reliable one, the calm one, the one everyone turns to? While strength can be admirable, constantly holding everything together can lead to burnout, anxiety, and emotional isolation. Here’s what it means and how therapy can help.
How Generational Trauma Shows Up in Parenting (And How to Break the Cycle)
Generational trauma doesn’t begin with you — but healing can. Learn how intergenerational trauma shows up in parenting, how anxiety and stress patterns get passed down, and how therapy can help break the cycle.
Subtle Signs Your Child Is Struggling (Even If They Say They’re Fine)
Your child says they’re fine — but something feels off. Here are subtle emotional and behavioral signs your child may be struggling, and when to consider professional support.
Postpartum Anxiety: The Signs No One Warns You About
Postpartum anxiety is common — and often misunderstood. Learn the signs no one talks about and when therapy can help you feel like yourself again.
Why Valentine’s Day Can Feel Lonely—Even in a Relationship
Feeling lonely in a relationship doesn’t always mean something is wrong. Learn what relationship loneliness really means, why it shows up around Valentine’s Day, and how therapy can help you reconnect.
How to Cope When Everything Feels Overwhelming
When anxiety, stress, and relationship challenges pile up, everything can feel overwhelming. Learn practical coping strategies and when to seek support.
10 Compassionate Ways Couples Can Disagree Without Hurting Each Other
Every couple disagrees, but conflict does not have to be painful or damaging. This long-form guide teaches couples how to communicate with respect, protect their emotional bond, and navigate disagreements with empathy, clarity, and emotional maturity—so arguments become opportunities for deeper love, not wounds.
The Mental Impact of Dating Apps: What Constant Swiping Does to Your Mind, Mood, and Self-Esteem
Dating apps can be exciting and full of possibility—but they can also impact your mental health in ways you might not expect. From dopamine-driven swiping to ghosting, comparison, and exhaustion, digital dating takes a real emotional toll. This article explores how dating apps affect your mood, self-esteem, and relationships—and offers therapist-approved tips to protect your mental health while looking for love online.
Making Time for Your Relationship – Therapist’s Guide to Reconnection & Intimacy
A therapist’s in-depth guide for couples seeking practical, compassionate strategies to rebuild connection and make intentional time for their relationship. Learn how to strengthen closeness through mindful communication, emotional presence, and meaningful rituals.
10 Meaningful Ways to Make Time for Your Relationship and Strengthen Connection
Between work, family, and endless to-do lists, many couples find themselves running out of time — not just for tasks, but for each other. Prioritizing your relationship isn’t about grand gestures; it’s about the small, consistent moments of presence that sustain love. This guide explores how couples can make intentional time for connection, intimacy, and growth, even in the busiest seasons of life.
How to Be There for Someone Struggling with an Eating Disorder
Supporting someone with an eating disorder can feel overwhelming, but your compassion and understanding can make all the difference. This guide explores practical and empathetic ways to help your loved one—without judgment or pressure—while also protecting your own emotional well-being.
10 Compassionate Ways to Talk About Changes in Intimacy During Pregnancy
Pregnancy brings not only physical and emotional shifts but also changes in intimacy. As a mental health professional, I’ll help you normalize these changes, avoid resentment, and explore 10 supportive ways to talk about intimacy openly with your partner.